Showing posts with label psblogger. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psblogger. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

What "CURVY" Means to Us


In recent years, there has been much discussion surrounding the use of the word “CURVY”, especially when it comes to plus size women. I have read numerous articles on the controversial subject, some degrading and offensive, and others amusing and somewhat intriguing.  

For instance, recently I came across an article in my hometown newspaper, The Detroit Free Press. It is titled: “Does 'curvy' label do large women a favor?” The author outlines some of the advancements that have been made in the fashion industry to include plus size women. She says: “It would be tempting to say we, as a society, have evolved. It would be tempting to say we’re no longer bound by prejudices about body size. It would be tempting to say we’re finally seeing and believing that women with large bodies are worthy of our respect.” I found her sentiments intriguing. In my opinion, the society that I live in is still very much bound by prejudices toward body size. The author goes on to say: “Society still loathes large women, it just doesn’t call women large any more. These days, large women are “curvy.” Even if they have no definable waist or hips, the very definition of curvy.”




Aha! Herein lies the basis of today’s post: 
What is the definition of “CURVY”? Can it be subjective or objective? 




I asked fellow #psbloggers from one end of the globe to the other to weigh in with me on the following questions:

How do you define the word curvy?
In the past, when I thought of a curvy woman, I pictured someone who had a smaller, defined waist, and shapely hips. I never believed that being curvy had anything to do with the size of a woman. For example: a woman that wears a size 4 can have curves, just as a woman who wears a size 14 can have curves. A woman who wears a size 6 might not have curves, just as a woman who wears a size 16 might not be the representation of curvy.

Do you consider yourself to be curvy?
Why yes, I certainly do!

Has your perception of the word curvy changed since joining the online plus size community?
My perception of the use of the word curvy has changed. I’ve come to realize that curves take on all forms, and shapes. It is not up to me to tell another woman whether she is or is not curvy. If a woman chooses to describe her body as curvy, it is not my taste to challenge the validity of what she asserts. At the end of the day, every woman is beautiful in a unique way.

How do you feel about the public’s perception of the word curvy, and its use in the plus size community?
I do not feel that being plus size is automatically synonymous with having curves, or being curvy. However, I don’t believe that the public should attack plus size women for using the word curvy to describe their bodies. At the heart of it all, most plus size women do not want their bodies to be described in terms that have a history of being offensive, degrading, and hateful. The descriptive word "CURVY" has a different connotation, one that generally engenders positive thoughts. The word CURVY does and will always have a place among plus size women!

The article that I referenced earlier asserts: “What makes most sense is to stop putting women into categories.” Well, that would be nice, but in my opinion, categories do serve a purpose. For instance, when searching for fashion inspiration on Pinterest/Instagram, without categories, how would we specify the images that we’d like to see? Just a thought…

Check out what “CURVY” means to my fellow #psbloggers:

Ashley @ www.fabellis.com
Delilah @ www.pumpsandstudz.blogspot.com
JoJo @ www.icurvyworld.com
Lauren @ www.thecurvyperfectionist.com
Nina @ www.curvymod.blogspot.com
Olivia @ www.curvesbecomeher.wordpress.com


Until next time lovelies!
Xx

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

30PlusStyle: The Swimsuit Edition

I cannot believe that this moment has finally arrived, after months of planning! The #30PlusStyle Collaboration has returned, and this go round we aim to initiate a tidal wave! Let me welcome you to: "The Swimsuit Edition"!!!


First: Today's post features the very first #30PlusStyle Guest Blogger: Marie Denee from TheCurvyFashionista.com ! 
Welcome aboard Marie Denee!!!

This post takes on special meaning for me personally. I hope to inspire women who may feel like I did for many years about my non-flawless body: inadequate and un-beautiful. For the majority of my adult life, I wore a very basic black one piece swimsuit, along with a pair of black swimming trunks designated for men.  It did not occur to me that there could possibly be a different swimsuit, one vibrant in color, not to mention a two piece, that could actually flatter and or define my pear-shaped body. Sadly I was accustomed to hiding inside that black one piece swimsuit and my pair of men's swimming trunks. I sometimes wished that I could disappear whenever I had to make an appearance at an ocean, hot spring, or swimming pool. 

When I relocated to the west coast, I felt like a woman basking in resilience.  My feelings of inadequacy seemed  to be replaced with feelings of confidence and I felt less concerned about how people viewed me. I even began to develop a love for being near water. It is relaxing, even joyous, to lay out on a beach or poolside, soaking up the sun's rays.

True story: While I was on location taking pictures for this post, there was a real deal, LIVE, swimsuit photo shoot taking place with professional swimsuit models! The young women were quite small in size. May I even say, tiny? I began to feel my old negative feelings resurging: shame and inadequacy. Just who did I think I was? Why was I taking pictures? What will people think of me for wearing this swimsuit? Almost just in time, the most amazing thing occurred: One of the models called out to me, and she said: "I just have to say, you look amazing." Another then said: "I just love your suit, where is it from?" As a result of those kind words, my insecurities melted away. I remembered that we are indeed, all beautiful. Yes, women are beautiful in every shape and size. And even more remarkably, I realized the power that women have to inspire, and encourage another. 



For today's post I decided to provide you with my review of the ever popular Forever 21+ 'Bombshell Bikini', available online and in stores. 

Notice that I am wearing the swimsuit in four different ways (alternating a floral print and a solid print) to demonstrate the adaptability that is possible. Do you feel uncomfortable wearing a bikini or a #fatkini? Try wearing a sheer cover-up or even a loose fitting crop top as I demonstrated above. 

In my opinion, the halter bikini top can leave something to be desired for those of us who are beyond a B/C-cup. However, it is versatile, and can also be worn as a tube style (try tying the halter portion underneath your bosom creating a sort of underwire effect for added support). The best part about the 
Forever 21+ 'Bombshell Bikini'? It costs less than $30.00 USD!

I hope that you've enjoyed this post, and that you leave feeling inspired and beautiful ;) 
Please do share, what is your swimsuit of choice?
Xx

P.S. 
--> Don't forget to check out all the #30PlusStyle beauties and our Special Guest Blogger:

www.thecurvyfashionista.com
www.mode-plus.com
www.pumpsandstudz.blogspot.com
www.thejenesaisquoi.blogspot.com
www.grownandcurvywoman.com
www.prettypluspep.blogspot.com

Monday, June 9, 2014

Mad Men Inspired


Doesn't this dress scream out, "Mad Men?!
Side note: I'm trying to hold in my laughter in the photo below as my hubby suggests how I should pose-LOL!
Back to Mad Men: in case you are not familiar, “Mad Men” is a period drama series based here in the United States. It is set during the 1960s. One character in particular has a style mantra that suits my fancy:  gorgeous, curvy Joan (Christina Hendricks). Joan’s style is FANTASTIC to me and I so wish that I could step through the TV screen and raid her wardrobe department!
 When I spotted this dress at Nordstrom and tried it on, I simply could not leave the store without it. My husband says that he is glad that I made that decision, because this dress is now one of his favorites ;)
After purchasing a new piece, the ever imminent question arises: ‘What will I wear with it?’ Fortunately, I had this fun vintage veiled cocktail hat, matching vintage earrings and strappy sandals in my stash.
I am quite pleased with how it all came together!  
I’d love to hear from you: Are you inspired by fashion worn in period pieces?
Vintage hat: Thrifted
Sunnies: Nordstrom
Earrings: Vintage, thrifted
Dress: Ivy & Blue for Maggy Boutique (Nordstrom)
Sandals: Via Spiga

In other news, I am super excited about a post coming up later on this week! I stepped completely outside of my comfort zone, and I hope that it will inspire you to love the skin you’re in ;)
Stay tuned & thanks for stopping by!
Xx

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Intense Royal Blue & LEB Workshop Assignment 7: Legs and Feet

I truly enjoy wearing this royal blue number! Dresses are in my opinion, the easiest piece of clothing that a woman can style. This dress was no exception. I added accessories of my choice and hit the door.
I would have to say that blue is quite possibly my favorite color. There isn't really a specific shade that suits my fancy more than others, they are all so beautiful! Take notice of the fit & flare design, an added bonus to the intense shade of blue ;) 








LEB Workshop Assignment 7: Legs and Feet
I've been running seriously behind on my LEB assignments (hosted by lovely Leah), so I decided to do a combined post today (previous assignments are posted here, here, and here). This month's focus is on legs and feet. I am grateful for my legs because they get me from Point A to Point B. I've been told since I was a little girl that I have big legs. Perhaps they are in the opinion of some, but I like them just the way they are. As for my feet, well now they can be a bit fussy because of hereditary issues, but all in all I have no complaints. Check out all my blogmates here.
Back to the style portion of this post:
Every time that I wear this dress, I accessorize it differently. Really, you can change the entire vibe of a look with the accessories that you choose. The options are boundless =) Here's a close-up of the accessories that I wore this go round.




Earrings: Natasha
Necklace: Boutique (Can't remember the name of it)
Dress: Eliza J.
Sequins clutch: Vintage
Peep toe pumps: Antonio Melani

Until next time, thanks for stopping by style lovers!
Xx

Friday, May 30, 2014

Thrift Store Score: You Can Call Me Pinky

It's been a quite a while since I posted a #ThriftStoreScore, so I decided today is just as good as any: CARPE DIEM!!!



I first introduced #ThriftStoreScore here. As previously mentioned, there are several reasons as to why I am an avid Thrifter. 

Today's reason: I ENJOY it! Yep, you read correctly, I enjoy thrift store shopping! Why in the world?! Well, yes, I know that some shoppes smell funny, and then there's a high probability that you will have to sift through piles of refuse, BUT that moment when you score a gem? PRICELESS! EUPHORIA! JOY! I think it's kinda like what hunters say about the thrill of the chase/hunt. Or um, something like that...

Yes, thrifting is truly a hobby for me, and a stress reliever. Of course, my entire wardrobe is not comprised of thrifted items. =) However, there are quite a few pieces sprinkled throughout, and I truly treasure them, no matter how long (or how short) they are apart of my collective. 

Have a great weekend lovlies and CARPE DIEM!

Straw fedora hat: Norstrom
Sunnies: Nordstrom
Striped top: Isaac Mizrahi, thrifted
Pleated midi skirt: Vintage, thrifted (previously worn here)
Crossbody bag: Kate Spade (seen here)
Pink metallic sandals: Tildon

Previous #thriftstorescore posts:

http://inmyjoi.blogspot.com/2014/03/thrift-store-score-blue-chevron-peplum.html

http://inmyjoi.blogspot.com/2014/03/thrift-store-score-vintage-stripes-fur.html

http://inmyjoi.blogspot.com/2014/04/thrift-store-score-pinterest-inspired.html

http://inmyjoi.blogspot.com/2014/04/thrift-store-score-chambray-by-day.html

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Stripes Reloaded

Hey there, I'm sorry that I've been MIA for a minute! I intentionally took a miniature blogging break, but then it unintentionally turned into a long break O_O! 
I just didn't feel like posing, taking pictures, writing, or posting  *_*. But alas, I'm over it and back in action =)

Today's look isn't new to the blog (last worn here), I think of it as an oldie but goodie. Every time I wear, I feel, simply put: Good!


I'm actually standing outside of my dressing room, which I revealed on Instagram. I might do a blog post on it when it's finished.


I also straightened my hair, which added to my whimsical mood.



I am completely taken by stripes, and I'm sure I'll continue to incorporate them even after the trend craze has passed.

So, how do you stripe?! LOL!

Until next time, and I promise- it will be sooner than later ;)
Xx

Friday, April 4, 2014

In the Pink, Neon that is


Happy Friday Ya'll! Are you looking forward to some R&R this weekend? I certainly am ;)

I was inspired by one of my FAV fashion bloggers Assa to try out the Joe Fresh clothing line. I hadn't noticed this brand before (where have I been?), but one day while in JCPenny I spotted it and went over to investigate. I'm so happy that I did! 

I snagged this pink cotton top with neon orange sequins on clearance. Isn't it fun?! I had several pieces already in my wardrobe that would pair up well with it. I try to follow the rule of 'one in, one out' when it comes to making new purchases. Sometimes it works well, and other times, not so much...LOL!

My co-worker subbed as my photographer (normally my hubby) and took these shots for me outside of the office on my way out. As I've mentioned before, my signature style at the office is bold color. 

It was such a windy day, and my hair was all over my head, like in the shot above. Perhaps this post should be titled: "Curls Gone Wild" -LOL! Here's the rundown:

Sunnies: Tahari
Top: Joe Fresh
Statement Necklace: JCPenny (old, also worn here)
Skirt: Liz Claiborne
Handbag: Kate Spade (worn here)
Sandals: Nina

I wish you a wonderful weekend! Until next time.
Xx 

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Thrift Store Score: Pinterest Inspired Tye Dye, Lace, and Sequins

Today's #ThriftStoreScore look sprang from an advertisement from Boo Hoo's new Plus line that I pinned on Pinterest. I had similar pieces already in my wardrobe so I took a gander at recreating it.


Several items in this look were thrifted, but the real #thriftstorescore is the Brahmin handbag. I spotted it at a Goodwill store with a broken handle. I approached the manager and asked for a price check, pointing out that the handle was broken. She offered it for $5.00 and I promptly purchased it. Next I contacted Brahmin, and they supplied me with the missing screws needed to repair the handle, free of charge. This bag retails for $300 USD.


When I recreate a look that inspires me, it is not with the intent of replicating the style in an exact way. 


My goal is rather to create a look that harmonizes with my personal style using some of the inspired elements.



Now that you've seen both looks, how'd I do? When recreating an inspired look, do you aim to replicate it exactly to a T?
Thanks for sharing!
X

P.S My updo was also Pinterest Inspired ;)

Sunnies: Tod's
Earrings: Betsey Johnson
Sequins Jacket: American Rag (worn here)
Top: Rubbish
Belt: Thrifted
Skirt: Due Per Due, thrifted (worn here)
Handbag: Brahmin, thrifted
Booties: Kelsi Dagger (worn here and here)

Monday, March 24, 2014

Remix Mondays: Turquoise & Rose


Hey there!

I took a much needed break from social media over the weekend and I must say that I feel f a n t a s t i c! It’s vital for the person that I am within to actually spend time “living” life and not ‘sharing, ‘uploading’, ‘sending’, ‘liking’, and ‘following’! I feel refreshed and renewed! I hope you enjoyed a beautiful weekend ;)



Today’s look is a remix, meaning that I’ve worn it before differently. You see I’ve been on this kick to utilize all pieces in my wardrobe more regularly. To do this I try to create new and practical ways to wear them differently. My goal is to stop limiting myself to the notion of seasons or when and how I wore the same piece(s) last time.



This is truly a new experience for me, as I am not originally from California nor am I accustomed to not shifting entire wardrobes as seasons change. Here seasons do not change drastically; it is generally mild all year around. I am learning that it is very possible for most pieces to get year round wear! This is a very interesting and fascinating prospect for me, seriously- LOL!
 
Today’s dress is graphic scuba material, and generally I think of wearing it during the warmest months of the year.
   



I decided to pair it this go round with a silk shirt and booties, which worked perfect for a nippy, breezy 70 degree day :)



Sunnies: Betsey Johnson
Dress: Cynthia Rowley (last worn here)
Silk Shirt: Thrifted
Statement necklace: JCPenny
Booties: Kelsi Dagger (also worn here)
Handbag: Coach



How do you remix pieces in your wardrobe?

Until next time!
Joi

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Gathered in Black



Today is Wednesday, the day that seems to automatically signal my brain that we've made it to the middle of the work week, 
and that there are only two more days until a glorious weekend! 

Today's post is a short one. I wore this ensemble over the weekend, and literally hopped out the car while we were out and about to take several photos. This is the only photo that came out somewhat suitable *_*

It's not often that I go for not only a black dress, but a long dress to boot! 
When I saw this number in Scottsdale, I was taken by the gathered details on the bottom of the dress. 
From what I've seen, this is signature for most Luna Luz dresses.

Jewelry: Vintage
Dress: Luna Luz
Brogue/wing-tip slingbacks: BCBG
Clutch: Vintage, also worn here

H A P P Y   W E D N E S D A Y!!!

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Throwback Thursday: Vintage Teal Evening Dress

2013 has come to a rapid end; In less than a week it will be 2014! I am shaking my head in disbelief. 
I've been organizing my blog archives, and came across my very first impromptu photo shoot.


This was back in the summer, before I took my braids down. We were on our way to a wedding. I'd been thinking, dreaming, talking, and wishing about starting my own blog (read about one of the reasons here). My husband said: 'Why not take some pictures?'. The desert sun was blazing, and it was 100 degrees. I stepped outside of my comfort zone, and that was the beginning of this journey. A month later I had accumulated a decent amount of research, and I posted my very first post (here).


I am very uncertain as to where and how this journey will pan out, but it is my sincere hope that somehow along the way, someone, somewhere, will feel inspired, more beautiful, and affirmation to be comfortable in their own skin. 
Remember: Your body is a gift. 
Despite any perceived imperfections, always embrace and value the gift that was made especially for you.


Dress: Vintage, thrifted
Earrings: Gifted, India
Necklace: Macy's
Clutch: Vintage, thrifted
Shoes: Nine West

Friday, December 20, 2013

The View 32 Stories Up

Happy Friday! Today's post features an outfit that I wore our last day in Vegas. It was such a refreshing getaway!
 
I ended up pairing these pieces together due to slightly chilly temps. I has originally planned to wear the jacket and tights with a skirt, but when I tried it all on together I found that I just wasn't feeling it, so I went this route instead.

I’m not sure how I feel about how it turned out. *_*

I tested out a theory I saw on one of my favorite longtime blogs. The article discussed wearing hosiery with open shoes. I really liked some the looks that were featured, so I thought I would try it. Now I see that the key for me to incorporate this look, is to ensure that the toe is closed versus open.

Over to you, have you tested wearing opaque hosiery with open shoes?
 
Jacket: INC International Concepts
Necklace: TJMaxx
Dress: Trina Turk
Tights: Hue
Booties: Levity (also seen here and here)
Shoulder bag: Dooney & Bourke
Scarf: Thrifted