Pretty in Pink with Elomi Lingerie

This post is sponsored by Elomi Lingerie. All opinions shared belong solely to me.

sunnies: Nordstrom| top: HERE| elomi bra: c/o HERE| matching brief: c/o HERE| shorts: old, Mango

leopard print shoes: Michael Kors, another option HERE| handbag: vintage, thrifted

Photography by A. Robinson

I first shared my affinity for the Elomi brand of lingerie HERE. I initially met with members of the team in Chicago earlier this year. Ever since then, I have been completely smitten with the brand 💕 In fact, as shared previously, it is the only brand of brassieres that I currently wear! 
The bra featured in today's post is called the Bijou Flirt and the color is Raspberry. The Bijou Flirt is one of the latest editions to Elomi's collections, designed specifically for a full bust, featuring a seamless eye-catching color and design. I also scored the matching briefs 😌 You can see the full set pictured together HERE.
What I really appreciate about Elomi's designs, is that not only are they wonderfully functional - as in providing all of the support that you'll ever need - but they are also GORGEOUS!!! Sometimes full figure bras tend to be ugly, and... well boring. That is no longer the case!
With Elomi, not only do I have a fantastically comfortable lift, but I also feel and look FABULOUS 👀❤😁
Until next time,
Xx

Chocolate Covered Graham Cracker

Have you ever looked at a color combination that you wore and it later reminded you of a particular food? Perhaps it’s because I’m a shameless foodie, but sometimes after I wear something, I suddenly realize that it looks similar to a combination of something edible, LOL! Today’s look reminds me of chocolate covered graham crackers…

This look is perfect for a Fall-esque day. I had planned to wear more shorts this summer, but it just didn’t happen. For the cooler months, I treat shorts just as I do skirts: add tights and push on!

Fur-trimmed Hat: Lord & Taylor| Velvet Blazer: Jones New York| Shorts:Mango (also worn here)| Tights: Lord & Taylor| Mary Jane Shoes: Victoria's Secret

About Truthful Thursdays:
You might remember that back in June I started a new series here on the blog entitled, “Truthful Thursdays”. I created it as a space for me to share more of my authentic self with my readers. Style and fashion is a very small part of who I am as a woman.  Unfortunately, I slacked off in keeping up with “Truthful Thursdays” as a result of a busy schedule. I didn’t carve out the time and energy necessary to sit down and create quality content. Now that the winter months have rolled in, my schedule has settled down somewhat and I plan to get back on track with Truthful Thursdays. Well today is Thursday, and there’s no better time than the present, right?! 

As I’ve mentioned before, I share my style with the intention of inspiring girls and women to confidently OWN whatever body size and or body type they have. Styling options are not limited because of your size, body type, or age. Generally speaking, when one dresses well, and actually likes the way that they look in their clothing, they feel happier as a person. Despite my intentions in blogging my style, I am a ‘private’ individual, one who does not like to open up to ‘strangers’, but rather only those whom have shown themselves to be worthy of trust. This fact causes me to battle within myself: What would I like to share with my audience versus what would I not like to share. However, I realize that for women to truly connect with me, I MUST (as I repeat this to myself out loud) let my guard down even further, and share my feelings. 

Here we go:
So, I’ve been in a reflective state as of late, as to what direction I’d like to go with my style blog. Would I like to talk more about my love of vintage fashion, perhaps sharing tips that work for me? Or, is it my ultimate dream to design a clothing line? I’ve learned that a number of style bloggers across the globe are interested in monetizing their blogs in one way or another. Some do it through advertising for brands on their personal blog and or social media accounts, for which they receive a commission. Others work with specific brands, including attending events and such. This awareness has caused me to ask myself: What are your long term goals? You see, when I started blogging I only set ONE goal. I had planned that if I did not reach that one goal, I’d move on and pursue other interests, discontinuing blogging altogether. Fast forward to now, just over a year of blogging my personal style and guess what? I actually reached my ONE goal! LOL! So now the figurative elephant that is looming in my room: What’s next? I didn’t plan out previously exactly what I wanted to do if/when I actually reached my ONE goal! Lesson to self: Always believe that you can and that you will.

As I continue to reflect on my objectives and goals going forward, I’ll begin implementing changes here and there to align my vision. 

But first, I’d like to get your feedback! What would you like to see/read about here on InMyJoi? How did you learn about this site? What makes you follow my blog?

Thanks for stopping by Style Lovers, I can’t wait to hear from you!
Xx

30PlusStyle: Cutting It Short

Happy MONDAY Style Lovers! The #30PlusStyle Collaboration returns today, and this time around we're cutting it short!

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I can totally count on one hand how many pairs of shorts I own ;) Because my thighs are generously sized and or proportioned, (LOL!) I tend to feel somewhat self-conscious in shorts. Do you feel the same way? Well today's post is especially for you! We aim to prove that yes, "We" can wear shorts! ;)

I wore this look for an evening out with my husband. Honestly, after looking at the pictures, I realize that I ought to wear this pair of shorts more often!  Yet another benefit of style blogging: You get to see/know yourself through the "lens". Sometimes you realize that things actually look better than you initially imagined ;) If you feel apprehensive about wearing certain pieces, take for example shorts, try styling your look at home and then photographing yourself. You may discover as did I, that you have no reason to be apprehensive!

On this particular evening it was scorching HOT, not solely because of the temperatures, but as a result of unnecessary humidity. By the way, when is more than 10% humidity truly necessary?! LOL- I'm just wondering...

This blouse is silk, and therefore does not breathe well. I was HOT! My husband offered up his baseball hat (we represent Detroit wherever we go!) and I was so appreciative of the slight cooling effect that resulted after I put it on.

The fabric and color of this pair of shorts reminds me of a linen/burlap blend. Paired along with an orange vintage blouse (which was a tad too hot for the weather that day), stilettos, and a vintage cocktail bag - I was ready for a good time!

Isn't this vintage cocktail bag the most?! Such intricate beading, done by hand no doubt! It's by Whiting & Davis. If you ever, ever-ever, come across one of their bags: Snap it up and hang on to it for me!

Alas, you must check out how all of the #30PlusStyle beauties "Cut it Short" today:
www.grownandcurvywoman.com
www.prettypluspep.blogspot.com
www.mode-plus.com
www.thejenesaisquoi.blogspot.com
www.pumpsandstudz.blogspot.com

FYI: We are looking for guest bloggers to join us for a future #30plusstyle post. If you're interested, contact us at 30plusstylecollab@gmail.com. Be sure to include your blog's URL!

Thanks for stopping by and have a great day!
Joi

Blouse:Vintage, thrifted (worn here) -Shorts:Mango-Handbag:Vintage,thrifted-Stilettos:BCBG